In our life , pains and happiness are always together . Its just like standing under the sun , youll get the sunshine but also the shadow . We all have pains and troubles when we grow up . We cant escape from them . Opposite , we should face them and solve them .

When I was in grade seven , I used to be really helpless and lonely . I had so much trouble with my study and my classmates . I could seldom understand the teacher when I was in class , I was shy to ask how to solve a question when I didnt know how to do it , I even never finish my homework after school . Because of these problems . I didnt have friends . Really , at that time , I thought no one liked to be a poor students friend . No one paid attention to me .

But I know , I couldnt be a person that no one liked me . So , I asked my teacher many times "how to make friends",and I asked my parents , I even search the Inter for a proper answer . At the same time , I studied much harder than before , I tried to do my homework by myself , I did a lot of exercises , and I read many books . I also tried to talk to my classmates and made friends with them . At first , they were very surprised and tired to avoid me . I felt really discouraged and painful , but I wiped my tears off and tried my best , finally , I made it , my scores went up and I also had great friends .

Today , when I think about those days , I believe that attitude decides everything . If I gave up when I was in grade seven , I wouldnt bec todays me . Growing pains can
ing happiness , it depends on whether you can see the thing that behind it . In the way we grow , pains can make you stronger and lead you to success .